How to: Vow

Writing your wedding vows doesn’t have to be stressful, overwhelming, or feel like you're writing a high school essay. You don’t need to spend hours scrolling through websites or sifting through guides. What you do need is a little guidance, a few great examples, and the freedom to be yourself - because that’s the person your partner fell in love with.

This is your quick and easy guide to writing vows that sound like you—authentic, heartfelt, and unforgettable.

Let’s break it down into 4 simple steps:

1. Start With Your Story

Every love story has a beginning—tell yours! Reflect on where it all started, what you thought when you first met, and how that moment brought you here today.

Examples:

• “Partner, I can’t believe that a late-night Facebook message would lead to six years of amazing adventures. I am so happy to be marrying you.”

• “I knew I was in trouble the moment I met you—funny, beautiful, and also… my best mate’s sister. Sorry Benny.”

• “From the shaggy-haired boy and the brace-faced girl, to the people we are today—I am so proud of how far we’ve come. Marrying you is the easiest decision I’ve ever made.”

  
  

2. Say What You Love

What do you adore about your partner? What moments or qualities make your heart swell? Whether it's their patience, their terrible dad jokes, or the way they light up a room - share it.

Examples:

• “You are the most thoughtful and kind person I know. I feel so lucky to start and end every day with you.”

• “I love your kitchen dance moves, your shower-singing voice, and most of all—your heart, and how it loves me.”

• “You’re my Labrador—not just because you chase a ball on every walk—but because you bring such pure joy into every day.”

3. Make Your Promises

They’re called vows for a reason. This is your chance to promise something real, something specific, and something that reflects who you are as a couple. Make it meaningful. Add a little humour if that feels right. Skip the “honour and obey” stuff - this is about what really matters to you.

Examples:

• “I promise to always fall asleep holding your hand, and to pretend your feet aren’t ice blocks.”

• “I vow to listen to your rants, resist breaking your Call of Duty games, and always be your biggest fan.”

• “I can’t promise I’ll replace the toilet roll every time—but I can promise to love you, fiercely and without reservation.”

  
  

4. End From the Heart

Wrap it all up with a heartfelt final sentence - something that says, “this is forever.” Whether it’s sweet, cheeky, poetic, or straight from the gut - make it count.

Examples:

• “I chose you then, and I’d choose you all over again. You have my heart, always.”

• “You are my best friend, my favourite person, and the love of my life. I can’t wait for a lifetime of Tuesday night wine and reality TV with you.”

• “If I had my time again, I’d only change one thing—I'd find you sooner. Because forever with you won’t be long enough.”

Still stuck?

Let’s face it - writing about your feelings can be daunting. That’s why I’m here.

Book me as your celebrant and I’ll guide you every step of the way - vows included. Whether you need help shaping your thoughts, editing your words, or finding the confidence to stand up and say them out loud, I’ve got you.

Because your vows should sound like you,And your day should feel like yours.

Let’s make it unforgettable. 💛